Trauma-Informed Ministry · survival workshop · Sept 30

The workshop poll, the whole system in one view

Each option: a TITLE (the door that stops the scroll) plus a SUB-HEADLINE (what it's actually about). Then the four proofs it's built from: Sharon's words, a real TikTok, the mold, a proven event. Nothing invented; every cell is real.

Option 01 · her own hook
Why Am I Like This?
It's not what's wrong with you. It's what happened to you. A trauma-informed hour on the beliefs quietly driving it, and how the body heals them.

Sharon's language

"you are the mistake… there's something wrong"

→ "it's mostly not her problem, it's the family system"

TikTok · proven

the "why am I like this / childhood trauma" lane, millions of views

+ "these aren't flaws" · 59.5K ↗

The mold

05 · [their symptom]? here's the real reason

the misidentified problem

Proven event

"What Happened to You?"

Oprah + Bruce Perry · #1 NYT · 1M+ copies · the exact reframe

Option 02 · the survival reframe
What Is Wrong With Me?
The survival patterns you built to stay safe, and how to finally see it was never you.

Sharon's language

"there's something wrong… something I'm missing"

→ "recognize they have value and self-worth"

TikTok · proven

"These aren't flaws, they're adaptations." 59.5K

Aspen Robinson ↗

The mold

the master reframe, plus her own hook

"your struggle isn't a flaw, it's how you survived"

Proven event

"From Surviving to Thriving"

Pete Walker · the CPTSD recovery bible · the survival to worth arc

Option 03 · the bridge (her call)
Why Do I Feel Like the Mistake?
The quiet shift from feeling like the problem to knowing your own worth, and how the body gets you there.

Sharon's language

"I am the mistake"

→ "I do have value and self-worth" (both verbatim)

TikTok · proven

"I don't blame them. I just understand now." 49.4K

Avi · Being & Becoming ↗

The mold

10 · From [pain identity] to [dream identity]

the mold she built live on the call

Proven event

"What Happened to You?"

the market's #1 "it was never you" reframe · 1M+ copies

Option 04 · the shame door
The Feeling You Can't Explain
Why shame quietly runs your reactions, and the somatic tools that finally settle it.

Sharon's language

"all of these are based in shame. All of them."

her through-line under every wound

TikTok · proven

"Not feeling safe in your uncomfortable feelings" #shame 109K

Self Experimenting ↗

The mold

what nobody tells you, the hidden thing

names the cause they can't see

Proven event

"Healing the Shame That Binds You"

John Bradshaw · 4M+ copies · the shame door

Option 05 · body-first, worth
You're Not Broken
Your nervous system kept the score. Here's how to help it finally feel safe.

Sharon's language

"you are damaged because of the dysfunction"

→ "value and self-worth"

TikTok · proven

"Our nervous system keeps the score." 232K

Dr. Nicole LePera ↗

The mold

09 · the body-first way, even if you've felt broken

the mechanism, not the label

Proven event

Trauma Super Conference

Alex Howard · 1M+ attendees · the body-first vertical

Poll the titles alone; the doors gather the interest. The sub-headline is what you say on the registration page and in the room, where the topic and the promise live. Pick your five, swap any wording, and it's ready.